• Latest
  • Trending
  • All
  • News
  • BUSINESS
  • SCIENCE
  • LIFESTYLE
  • TECH
Toby’s Genius Way of Making Friends

Toby’s Genius Way of Making Friends

August 8, 2022

Indulge in Opulence: Punctual’s Exquisite Stretch Limousines

September 22, 2023
Requiem for a Forgotten West Texas Cow Town

Requiem for a Forgotten West Texas Cow Town

September 22, 2023
Zendaya Sets the Record Straight on Tom Holland Engagement Rumors

Zendaya Sets the Record Straight on Tom Holland Engagement Rumors

September 22, 2023
Engadget Podcast: iPhone 15 Pro reviews, Microsoft picks AI over Surface

Engadget Podcast: iPhone 15 Pro reviews, Microsoft picks AI over Surface

September 22, 2023
How We Paid Off $28,000 Of Debt In 15 Months

How We Paid Off $28,000 Of Debt In 15 Months

September 22, 2023
Where to Watch & Stream Online

Where to Watch & Stream Online

September 22, 2023
Sessions to Hold Hearing with U.S. Postmaster General on Postal … – House Committee on Oversight and Reform |

Press Release | Press Releases | Newsroom | U.S. Senator Bill … – Senator Bill Cassidy

September 20, 2023
USA TODAY HSS Super 25 schedule week of Sept. 18

USA TODAY HSS Super 25 schedule week of Sept. 18

September 20, 2023
Check Out These 5 Fall Plus Size Shopping Tips to Help You Shop with Confidence!

Check Out These 5 Fall Plus Size Shopping Tips to Help You Shop with Confidence!

September 20, 2023
Buffalo Chicken Mac and Cheese

Buffalo Chicken Mac and Cheese

September 20, 2023
Suspended UMC Latina bishop accused of financial malfeasance and retaliation

Suspended UMC Latina bishop accused of financial malfeasance and retaliation

September 20, 2023

[4K] CENTURY CITY – Walking Tour of Century City Mall, West Los Angeles, USA – 4K UHD

September 20, 2023
  • Home
  • News
    • PRESS RELEASE
  • Shop
  • BUSINESS
    • CRYPTO
    • ECONOMY
    • FINANCE
    • MARKET
    • MONEY
  • TECH
    • APPS
    • GADGET
    • MOBILE
    • SCIENCE
  • SOCIAL MEDIA
  • ENTERTAINMENT
    • ARTS & THEATER
    • GAMING
    • GAMBLING
    • MOVIE
    • MUSIC
    • SHOWS
    • SPORTS
  • LIFESTYLE
    • CELEBRITY
    • CULTURE
    • Education
    • FASHION
    • FOOD
    • HEALTH
    • HISTORY
    • Nature
    • Religion
    • Shopping
    • TRAVEL
  • REAL ESTATE
  • Blog
  • Classifieds
No Result
View All Result
No Result
View All Result
Home LIFESTYLE

Toby’s Genius Way of Making Friends

by Minnesota Digital News
August 8, 2022
in LIFESTYLE
0
Toby’s Genius Way of Making Friends
491
SHARES
1.4k
VIEWS
Share on FacebookShare on Twitter


toby goddard-williams

Twelve-year-old Toby has a three-step approach to deepening friendships, and it really works…

1. Just invite them. Every week or two, Toby will stroll into whatever room I’m working in and casually announce: “Claire’s family will be here at 6 p.m.” Or “Raj and Kaori are coming by for ice cream tonight.” He will have made the executive decision to text family friends and invite them over for that evening; and 75% of the time, they are free and will accept.

2. Be chill. Since the plan is so spontaneous, we often don’t even tidy up. (As Jenny says, “Busy, happy houses are messy,” right?) The other day, my friend Zack’s family came over, and I was still finishing up work, and nothing was set up, so they let themselves in and flopped on the sofa with the boys and answered the door for the pizza delivery, and it was SO familial and laid-back and cheerful. At the end of the night, his four-year-old said, “You are turning into our family,” and I teared up. Is a super informal hang the key to leveling up a friendship?

3. Choose a loose theme. This part is optional, haha, but one of my favorite things about Toby is that the kid LOVES a theme. He’ll say, “Let’s do a Greek spread tonight!” and we’ll walk to the grocery store for grape leaves and a container of hummus. Sometimes he’ll pick a dress code, like “wear your favorite hat.” And other times, he’ll center the hang around a TV show. It doesn’t even have to be new — a couple weeks ago, we had friends over to eat popcorn and watch the Fuller House episode where they flew to Japan!

That’s it — three simple steps. NBD. And it really works.

Last week, he texted my friend Alison: “Want to come over for dinner? The dress code is fancy OR pajamas.”

Alison’s family went the sleepwear route…

…whereas my kids pulled out their wedding blazers.

I love that Alison’s family casually walked 20 minutes to our house in pajamas. No one cares or notices anything in NYC, haha.

“Literally wut.”

Overall, I love Toby’s casual approach, and it makes me feel inspired to welcome people over through a revolving door, like Kramer in Seinfeld. Thanks for the great reminder, Tobes!

baby toby

Even as a baby, Tobes loved hosting a party.

What about you? How do you prefer to have people over — spur-of-the-moment or more thought out? What do you like to serve? Any pro tips?

P.S. The secret to female friendship, and 14 things to do with friends (other than dinner).

45 COMMENTS





Source link

Share196Tweet123Share49
Minnesota Digital News

Minnesota Digital News

Saint Paul
◉
75°
Cloudy
6:21 am8:09 pm CDT
Feels like: 75°F
Wind: 9mph ESE
Humidity: 72%
Pressure: 30.19"Hg
UV index: 1
TueWedThuFri
100/79°F
97/72°F
90/68°F
84/61°F
Weather forecast Saint Paul, Minnesota ▸
TRAVEL

Indulge in Opulence: Punctual’s Exquisite Stretch Limousines

by Minnesota Digital News
September 22, 2023
Requiem for a Forgotten West Texas Cow Town
HISTORY

Requiem for a Forgotten West Texas Cow Town

by Minnesota Digital News
September 22, 2023
Zendaya Sets the Record Straight on Tom Holland Engagement Rumors
ENTERTAINMENT

Zendaya Sets the Record Straight on Tom Holland Engagement Rumors

by Minnesota Digital News
September 22, 2023
Engadget Podcast: iPhone 15 Pro reviews, Microsoft picks AI over Surface
GADGET

Engadget Podcast: iPhone 15 Pro reviews, Microsoft picks AI over Surface

by Minnesota Digital News
September 22, 2023
How We Paid Off $28,000 Of Debt In 15 Months
FINANCE

How We Paid Off $28,000 Of Debt In 15 Months

by Minnesota Digital News
September 22, 2023
Where to Watch & Stream Online
MOVIE

Where to Watch & Stream Online

by Minnesota Digital News
September 22, 2023
Sessions to Hold Hearing with U.S. Postmaster General on Postal … – House Committee on Oversight and Reform |
PRESS RELEASE

Press Release | Press Releases | Newsroom | U.S. Senator Bill … – Senator Bill Cassidy

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
USA TODAY HSS Super 25 schedule week of Sept. 18
SPORTS

USA TODAY HSS Super 25 schedule week of Sept. 18

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
Check Out These 5 Fall Plus Size Shopping Tips to Help You Shop with Confidence!
FASHION

Check Out These 5 Fall Plus Size Shopping Tips to Help You Shop with Confidence!

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
Buffalo Chicken Mac and Cheese
FOOD

Buffalo Chicken Mac and Cheese

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
Suspended UMC Latina bishop accused of financial malfeasance and retaliation
Religion

Suspended UMC Latina bishop accused of financial malfeasance and retaliation

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
Shopping

[4K] CENTURY CITY – Walking Tour of Century City Mall, West Los Angeles, USA – 4K UHD

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
Broadcom Stock Sees Another Big Insider Buy
BUSINESS

Broadcom Stock Sees Another Big Insider Buy

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
A Pair of Sun Probes Just Got Closer to Solving a Solar Enigma
SCIENCE

A Pair of Sun Probes Just Got Closer to Solving a Solar Enigma

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
10 Real Estate Deals in 18 Months After Losing 80% of His Income
REAL ESTATE

10 Real Estate Deals in 18 Months After Losing 80% of His Income

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
10 Companies That Hire for Remote Admin Jobs
MONEY

10 Companies That Hire for Remote Admin Jobs

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
Steelcase expects ‘significantly improved’ profit, as more employees return to offices
MARKET

Steelcase expects ‘significantly improved’ profit, as more employees return to offices

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
USA VeeraSimhaReddy premier Fans Firstday theaters SLOGAN OF THE DAYYYY…..#JAIBALAYYA #Chicago
ARTS & THEATER

USA VeeraSimhaReddy premier Fans Firstday theaters SLOGAN OF THE DAYYYY…..#JAIBALAYYA #Chicago

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
The Silly Story Behind The Weirdest Xbox Exclusive
GAMING

The Silly Story Behind The Weirdest Xbox Exclusive

by Minnesota Digital News
September 20, 2023
Minnesota Digital News

Copyright © 2023 Minnesota Digital News

Navigate Site

  • Disclaimer
  • Privacy Policy
  • Copyright Notice
  • Anti Spam Policy
  • Medical Disclaimer
  • DMCA Compliance
  • Terms and Conditions
  • Social Media Disclaimer
  • Amazon Affiliate disclaimer

Follow Us

No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • News
    • PRESS RELEASE
  • Shop
  • BUSINESS
    • CRYPTO
    • ECONOMY
    • FINANCE
    • MARKET
    • MONEY
  • TECH
    • APPS
    • GADGET
    • MOBILE
    • SCIENCE
  • SOCIAL MEDIA
  • ENTERTAINMENT
    • ARTS & THEATER
    • GAMING
    • GAMBLING
    • MOVIE
    • MUSIC
    • SHOWS
    • SPORTS
  • LIFESTYLE
    • CELEBRITY
    • CULTURE
    • Education
    • FASHION
    • FOOD
    • HEALTH
    • HISTORY
    • Nature
    • Religion
    • Shopping
    • TRAVEL
  • REAL ESTATE
  • Blog
  • Classifieds

Copyright © 2023 Minnesota Digital News